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We like things to be perfect, but not too perfect. Too polished seems unnatural. If things are achieved effortlessly, we’re less impressed. A result that comes from a struggle is more rewarding than if it just lands in your lap.
I went to the ballet on Saturday and watched a group of young dancers perform. Somehow, knowing they were inexperienced — and probably more nervous — made the whole thing more enjoyable. I felt more involved and more connected to those young people struggling on stage.
Now, I’m not a dancer, but I like to cook. I know that people will appreciate my food more if they see I’ve put a lot of effort into it. I need to show I’m in control, but they also like to see me sweat. The effort needs to be visible. It’s human.
When I saw the first computer-generated images they always seemed fake. The images were too perfect. It wasn’t until digital artists started adding lens flares, a clear mistake or bug in a ‘real’ photo, that the images started to look real. It was the imperfection taht made it perfect. I once heard a story that Prince would program his synthesizer to be slightly off tempo, or change almost imperceptibly over time — all to make his music more appealing.
It seems we need to see the effort, and some form of imperfection, to really appreciate things.
Which is why I left at least one spelling error in my story.
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