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Weβre skipping our own personal updates this week, and are instead linking to some resources on learning about racism, systematic oppression, and allyship:
- This Black Lives Matter database of ways to educate yourself and help the cause
- The New York Timesβ anti-racist reading list and list of books that can help you explain racism and protest to your kids
- Patiaβs Fantasy Worldβs exhaustive database of anti-racist resources, including information on legal funds, racism in the workplace, bail funds, and more
- Los Angeles Timesβ story on how white people can be a good ally during protests
- Highsnobietyβs guide on how to support the Black Lives Matter movement from Europe
- The Independentβs guide on how to support anti-racist organizations in the UK if you canβt donate
- Product Huntβs Twitter thread on black-founded products, services, and projects
- Vultureβs list of documentaries you should watch about racism and police brutality in America
- Jstorβs free syllabus on institutionalized racism
- Ta Nehisi-Coatesβ seminal text for The Atlantic, βThe Case for Reparationsβ
- VentureBeatβs list of essential reading and research on race and tech
- Alijah Webbβs Google Drive of black revolutionary texts
- The Black Curriculumβs #TBH365 campaign to incorporate black lived experiences into UK school curriculums
- SZAβs Twitter thread on supporting black-owned local businesses that have been affected by the protests
If youβre joining protests, weβve made several guides on keeping your personal data safe while on the ground, how to quickly disable your iPhoneβs metrics if youβre arrested, how to turn off your location services on iOS and Android, and how to blur faces and strip metadata from photos.
This list is not a complete one, but has resources weβve personally found helpful. Please let us know if you have a resource you think we and others need to see!
[Also read our previous issue: Byte Me #15: Objectifying men, pandemic parenting, and mindful masturbation]
Weβre also skipping the misogynistic tweets for now β hereβs this monthβs illustration from our gloriously gifted designer, SaΓ―na:

the bloody news
- Model and transgender activist Munroe Bergdorf is accusing LβOrΓ©al of racial hypocrisy. They fired the model from a campaign in 2017 after she spoke out about the white nationalist rallies in Charlottesville. Yet now LβOrΓ©al is promoting βspeaking outβ on their Instagram. (The Guardian)
Itβs not adding up @Loreal??? pic.twitter.com/T7YPHDiRPM
β ChantΓ© said ABOLISH THE POLICE ????? (@ChantayyJayy) June 1, 2020
- Resurfacing this essay from Pulitzer-winning journalist, Nikole Hannah-Jones, βThe grief that white Americans canβt share.β
- We really enjoyed this conversation between Janelle MonΓ‘e and Cheersβ LaβDarius Marshall on identity, mental health, and integrity. (The Cut)
- Speaking of Janelle MonΓ‘e, hereβs her cover story for last monthβs Vanity Fair: βThere can be a real uprisingβ¦ The majority of us do not want to continue to see things be the way that they are.β
Credit: Vanity Fair Credit: Vanity Fair - Black Lives Matter protesters arenβt being tracked with COVID-19 surveillance tech β yet. (The Correspondent)
- Christabel Nsiah-Buadi for The Independent: βI was pregnant when Trayvon Martin was killed. This week, I had to watch my seven-year-old learn about George Floyd over Zoom.β
- Breonna Taylor was shot and killed by police in her home in March as part of an (illegal) drug raid. Sheβs not an anomaly: tens of thousands more innocent black and Latino people could be targeted in raids this year, Mother Jones reports.
- Voter turnout to recent primaries has increased past 2016 levels, seeing historic wins for women of color. One of the women making history is Ella Jones, who has just been voted in as the first black mayor of Ferguson, Missouri. (The New York Times)
Credit: Ferguson City Directory - Kemi Alemoru for gal-dem asks: βWhat should we do with videos of police brutality?β
- Keisha Lance Bottoms wrote an op-ed for The New York Times about how she canβt protect her son from police violence, even though sheβs the mayor of Atlanta.
- This monthβs British Vogue will star 3 essential workers: Narguis Horsford, a train driver, Rachel Millar, a midwife, and Anisa Omar, a supermarket assistant.
Credit: Vogue Read the cover story here, and watch the short video documenting a day in their lives here.
thatβs what they said
Social media has undeniably been a crucial part of spreading the truth of George Floydβs death, as well as the Black Lives Matter movement at large. But some social media practices hurt more than they help.
This month, weβre going to defer to four New York Times staffers β Jasmine Howard, Tariro Mzezewa, Lindsey Underwood, and Caity Weaver β who discussed Instagramβs #BlackoutTuesday.
Weβve included some quotes from their chat below, but would recommend you read the full thing on the NYT site.
Lindsey: I donβt post on Instagram often, but today I felt a pull to post. My feed was flooded with black squares, but I just couldnβt pull the trigger. I felt conflicted about seeing so many of my white friends β who may have great intentions β posting the blackout. I just imagine some level of satisfaction they may feel that they βspoke out,β but Iβm not sure what it really accomplishes.
Tariro: Weβve all seen performative and insincere allyship in the days since George Floyd died in police custody, and some of us may come at something like this with some degree of skepticism.
Jasmine: Iβve seen a few posts where Iβm like, βI wouldβve rather youβd done nothing.β
Caity: My initial reaction was: This feels sort of empty. A couple of my black friends posted the squares, but the vast majority of people who did it on my feeds were white. Non-black people of color seemed to be split.
Tariro: Also, guys, BRANDS! Brands love the square!
Caity: I love holding brands accountable financially. Iβm glad record companies are making donations today. But also: I donβt look to brands for inspiration, news, or guidance.
You can check out their full conversation here.
For more discussions you should listen to this week, here are some incredible podcasts:
- 1619 β Created by Pulitzer-winning journalist Nikole Hannah-Jones, this podcast is part of a broader editorial project from The New York Times, which aims to βreframe the countryβs history by placing the consequences of slavery and the contributions of black Americans at the very center of our national narrative.β The podcast is excellent.
- The Read β Hosted by Kid Fury and Crissle, two black, queer media personalities that put out this hilarious, politically-charged, and articulate discussion of everything from police brutality to hip-hop culture and personal advice once a week. Started in 2013, this podcast is one of the original greats β and Gigiβs all time favorite. Check out the latest episode here.
- Still Processing β Another NYT podcast! Still Processing is hosted by Jenna Wortham and Wesley Morris, two NYT culture writers. Each week they pick apart a piece of culture in a highly intellectual way. We especially loved this episode where they compared Jordan Peeleβs Us to Toni Morrisonβs Beloved.
- Bobo and Flex β This cross-continental podcast is hosted by two friends βon a quest to decolonize our minds, intersect our feminism, but most importantly, give us all the tools necessary to stay away problematic boys!β You can listen to their latest episode here.
- Code Switch β This episode of NPRβs Code Switch podcast is a thought-provoking interview with Alex S. Vitale (who wrote the 2017 book The End of Policing) about why we donβt need law enforcement as much as we think.
the best advice
In this section, we ask women much smarter than us about the best piece of professional advice theyβve ever received.
This monthsβ advice comes from Dr. Jacqueline Copeland-Carson, the COO, and Brenda Darden Wilkerson, President and CEO of AnitaB.org, an organization that connects, inspires, and strives for greater equality for women technologists in business, academia, and government.

Brenda D Wilkerson β βThe best advice was βDo you, Brenda.β Especially as a Black female in tech, this is often hard when so many times the culture seeks to erase difference. The sad thing is the very thing that brings about innovation in so many instances is the empathy of each personβs experiences. So bringing authentically my perspective to the conversation, especially if itβs different, is the best thing I can do for the project or team Iβm on to help us make sure all bases are covered.β
J. Copeland-Carson β βBest advice was to seek excellence but remember you canβt have it all at the same time; and ways to always keep career alive while caring for yourself and others. Also, building ladders of opportunity for others is the best way to propel opportunities for yourself.β
You can read the whole of Copeland-Carson and Wilkersonβs AMA here.
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